Getting Help For Your Relationship Earlier Can Save You Money!

We hear the argument that getting help for your relationship by doing couples therapy is just too expensive. 

Part of what plays into this is everything that we have been talking about over the last couple of weeks. When we have been programmed through modeling to bring our baggage into our relationships, and then we wait on average six years to start getting help for it, that is going to take time to work through. 

Your relationship did not get into this shape overnight, and it will take more than one session of couples therapy to put it on solid ground. One thing I can say is that when you start getting help earlier in the relationship things are so much easier and quicker to fix. 

When things are easier and quicker to fix, you save money fixing them. 

So much of what you learn in couples therapy will serve you in your relationship with your partner and pretty much anyone else. Relationships are relationships after all. What applies to couple's work will apply to almost any relationship. Things like respect, boundaries, same as, empathy and almost anything else I can think of when it comes to relationships apply to all our other relationships as well. They never go out of style either. 

When we get help for our relationship earlier in the relationship, we can start breaking the patterns that hurt the relationship. We can start putting in place more healthy ways to communicate and express ourselves to each other in a way that is respectful and caring rather than hurtful and uncaring. 

Ultimately, you will save yourself so much time, money, and aggravation if you get the help you need earlier than later for your relationship. You might even put into place things that build up your partner rather than tear them down. 

All relationships can use help, we offer that help here at Harper Therapy. Give us a call today at 813-434-3639.